tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post8901446627289803480..comments2024-03-27T21:51:26.751+00:00Comments on Naughty Little Writer: Round Table Discussion: Fantasy vs realityPenelopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-29682072129803019682014-01-23T21:42:11.783+00:002014-01-23T21:42:11.783+00:00May I appy for that position, please?...)May I appy for that position, please?...)Mr Xnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-31960594545096272042014-01-23T21:40:32.697+00:002014-01-23T21:40:32.697+00:00Thank you somuch Penny. Big Hugs You never know I...Thank you somuch Penny. Big Hugs You never know I might find a woman who will want to take part in my stories in r//l one day.Suppose stranger things have happened..)Mr Xnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-48378303182341706792014-01-23T21:11:27.372+00:002014-01-23T21:11:27.372+00:00Interesting (as always), Joelle :)
Different fant...Interesting (as always), Joelle :)<br /><br />Different fantasies, and different reading experiences, are some of the things that make us unique; I love the limitless variation that people bring to things, just by being themselves.<br /><br />HONK!Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-18801571956201528052014-01-23T16:28:36.028+00:002014-01-23T16:28:36.028+00:00Thank you for such a wonderful comment, Ancient TF...Thank you for such a wonderful comment, Ancient TFD! You and I think along similar lines, and you put it all much better than I ever could :)<br /><br />My scribblings are an expression of love, just as the things I do away from the computer are, and I love that the worlds I create have a reality for you. I feel the same way about all the amazing people who share their thoughts and work with the world.<br /><br />Hugs!Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-36464402805519558362014-01-23T15:14:44.166+00:002014-01-23T15:14:44.166+00:00Imagination and fantasy are very powerful, I quite...Imagination and fantasy are very powerful, I quite agree. Can you imagine life (and culture as we know it) without them? I can't!<br /><br />And your fantasies sound very erotic :)Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-77841940791513588382014-01-23T12:26:41.379+00:002014-01-23T12:26:41.379+00:00A very good thought, Jamie, and one I wish I had b...A very good thought, Jamie, and one I wish I had brought into my post! You're exactly right: fantasies are our own creations, and so we have a different relationship to them - and they have a different internal dynamic - to the non-fantasy world.Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-67844042270910373232014-01-23T12:18:50.182+00:002014-01-23T12:18:50.182+00:00This is true! And this is why it's important t...This is true! And this is why it's important to remember that fantasies aren't necessarily transferrable verbatim into 'real life'. (I'm telling myself that as much as anyone else!)Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-58889394334718912162014-01-23T12:09:15.609+00:002014-01-23T12:09:15.609+00:00Yes, I think that's it - have fun but don'...Yes, I think that's it - have fun but don't fall through the looking-glass and lose sight of where you came from.<br /><br />Even when you're blindfolded. And possibly gagged.Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-39670236655863369152014-01-23T11:34:42.390+00:002014-01-23T11:34:42.390+00:00Glad you enjoyed, Leigh :)
And yes, you are so ri...Glad you enjoyed, Leigh :)<br /><br />And yes, you are so right - the pleasure of fantasy (and/or fantasy enactment) is about more than just the physicality of things.Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-6687883302146207752014-01-23T11:30:10.596+00:002014-01-23T11:30:10.596+00:00Ohh... lovely fantasy, Maren :) so much going on i...Ohh... lovely fantasy, Maren :) so much going on in there! And all of it hot. Smart, professional people being naughty is just... yum.Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-59735764686416300482014-01-23T11:22:43.470+00:002014-01-23T11:22:43.470+00:00Thanks, Ana! :)
I figure that fantasy is part of ...Thanks, Ana! :)<br /><br />I figure that fantasy is part of being human, whatever those fantasies - and whatever our individual reality - might involve.<br /><br />Birthday in Feb! I'm starting to not like the number ticking up... when did that happen? :/Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-34401160921284954832014-01-23T11:10:50.721+00:002014-01-23T11:10:50.721+00:00Yes, I suppose that's the central irony... if ...Yes, I suppose that's the central irony... if all our fantasies did become real we would have to find new things to fantasise about.<br /><br />Perhaps there's more worth to the 'chase' (the <i>desire</i> that we feel for our fantasies to become real, bitter-sweet though it may be) than we typically recognise. Thank you for a thought-provoking comment!Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-66374175357563385572014-01-23T11:05:29.469+00:002014-01-23T11:05:29.469+00:00Thank you, Emily! It's a ginormous subject and...Thank you, Emily! It's a ginormous subject and one I can only try my bestest to poke at. So glad it made a little sense :)Penelopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00565114729355841150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-20164542933135635552014-01-17T23:29:48.358+00:002014-01-17T23:29:48.358+00:00HONK!
sorry, I got lost at honkifying :D.
Hm, mayb...HONK!<br />sorry, I got lost at honkifying :D.<br />Hm, maybe I have a different set of fantasies... I read spanking fiction especially, but really most erotica as something outside myself, something I empathize with lessJoelle Casteelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06916035794147846651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-39713091528462878892014-01-17T22:54:28.601+00:002014-01-17T22:54:28.601+00:00Yes, I also see fantasy as its own reality. What w...Yes, I also see fantasy as its own reality. What we think, dream, feel, what we want to be or do is as much a part of who we are as what we actually do. How deeply we're able to embrace fantasy, and to the exclusion of reality, varies, but the inner worlds you share on your blog exist. They exist for me when you share them. I don't really want anyone to be a permanent pupil at a strict school. That's oppression. Spanking, the freedom to act, is about some kind of love. It's much better that you want what you want, that you're free to play with it and to share your intimate thoughts about it. <br /><br />I think I always want to identify to some extent with one or more characters in a spanking story. If and how I identify depends on the story, and in some cases, the author. I want to be moved by the situation, emotionally, intellectually, and/or erotically. I do wish that some of my fantasies could be realized. All are not impossible. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />The Ancient One ;)<br />TFDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15694170149649278957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-47216091368714627152014-01-17T21:25:28.198+00:002014-01-17T21:25:28.198+00:00"Oh reality is no good to me and it make me l..."Oh reality is no good to me and it make me laugh" ..I never iget the chance ndulge my spanking fantasies in r/l so imagination and fantasy are very powerful I enjoy reading and writing stories about womens prisons/reform schools etc and imagine myself as the strict but fair officer.Mr Xnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-25001965907295337142014-01-17T20:38:15.172+00:002014-01-17T20:38:15.172+00:00Maybe the advantage of fantasy over reality, even ...Maybe the advantage of fantasy over reality, even played out fantasy is that there is an element of control to direct the events imagined, or real towards what we desire, our desire being very personal and unique to each of us, whereas true reality often has an element, large or small, of going its own way. Anyway, just a thought.Jamienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-67530291603988787472014-01-17T18:19:30.240+00:002014-01-17T18:19:30.240+00:00The Issue most would have is that The reality woul...The Issue most would have is that The reality would never quite measure up to the fantasy .. Daddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13486408000951869899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-70934430818829722602014-01-17T17:02:09.651+00:002014-01-17T17:02:09.651+00:00I think I'm saying this on all the posts on th...I think I'm saying this on all the posts on this week's round table - you hit it with knowing it's fantasy even (especially) when the line are blurred. Keep both feet on the ground and have fun - both eyes open :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07220029273749305283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-18902203453099795422014-01-17T15:28:12.807+00:002014-01-17T15:28:12.807+00:00Of course I have a fantasy I've often used whe...Of course I have a fantasy I've often used when the reality isn't cutting it. I can a little tingle just hearing some phrases and often say the threat of a spanking can be as exciting to me as either reading about or getting the actual spanking.The threat doesn't hurt, not that pain can't be fun too.<br /><br />Enjoyed the post.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-34451992467489431792014-01-17T15:01:01.906+00:002014-01-17T15:01:01.906+00:00I think everyone has a favorite fantasy that they ...I think everyone has a favorite fantasy that they escape to when the moment's just right. Permanent schoolgirl definitely has her appeal, though my favorite retreat is a discrete, nondescript corporate office with a veritable mountain of a man sitting behind the desk. He looks up from the manila file he's been perusing and pins me to my seat with a look as he says, "So, you're here for a spanking, are you? How long has it been, Ms. Smith, since your last one? Because judging by these answers, I'd say you're long overdue."<br /><br />Yours was an amazing and insightful post, Penny. :) Thanks for sharing it with us!Maren Smithhttp://badgirlscorner.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-14818152581504082972014-01-17T12:45:42.420+00:002014-01-17T12:45:42.420+00:00This is such an amazing post, Penny.
I think man...This is such an amazing post, Penny. <br /><br />I think many of us would not be prepared for 100% reality. <br /><br />25 and 5/6...so cute.Anastasia Vitskyhttp://www.governingana.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-53540900149881307112014-01-17T12:43:31.027+00:002014-01-17T12:43:31.027+00:00Great post, Penny! Doesn't everyone wish that ...Great post, Penny! Doesn't everyone wish that their fantasies were a reality? But if they all were real life would get pretty boring... I need somewhere to 'escape' to.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09958878959625455361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4028972196307790348.post-8331128083643420432014-01-17T11:48:13.500+00:002014-01-17T11:48:13.500+00:00Wonderful, wonderful post, Penny. As usual, I agre...Wonderful, wonderful post, Penny. As usual, I agree completely with your analysis!Emily Tiltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00536293416359753427noreply@blogger.com