Friday 4 October 2013

Round Table Discussion: Roleplay


What’s that sound I hear? Why, it’s a gaggle of beautiful, spanky people gathering at the round table for another edifying discussion! The topic this time is one very close to my heart. Roleplay!

It will come as no shock to regular readers to hear that I love to indulge in roleplay as part of kinky sex. I love dressing as a schoolgirl and being punished in detention; I love dressing as a maid and being thoroughly chastised by the master of the house. There are loads of fantasy situations and roles (and outfits) that I enjoy, and many more that I would like to try. (Cheerleader in a kidnap/non-consent fantasy is top of the to-try list, should anyone fancy forking out for a uniform).

But whether I’m playing a naughty secretary about to have her pencil skirt hitched up against her will or an ageplay daughter in trouble with a strict Daddy, the common factor is that it just feels SO damn good to cast off all of my usual cares for a while and immerse myself in another reality. One in which nothing matters but the rules my partner and I create; one in which the physicality of things, the sensuality of things, is central. For as long as we remain in the fantasy school of our shared imaginations, in a very real sense I am a schoolgirl, powerlessly subject to strict, humiliating discipline and the lustful attentions of my teacher. And those scolding words, that wagging finger, and that frightful, scorching ruler on my backside, are all I care about.

Escapism is of course a significant part of the experience, as the above hopefully attests. But I think that this act of escape is not as straightforward as it might seem: it is certainly not just a matter of ‘dressing up’. The proximity of roleplay to sex (and kink) is one complicating factor, as this introduces a level of physical and emotional intensity to the experience that renders it profoundly corporeal. A second is the liberating quality of escapism itself. I think that the sensation of escapism – an experience in which I am, essentially, escaping myself – ironically helps me become more aware of myself. It frees me to focus; it gives me licence to feel, and to relish, more completely. This dual experience, this simultaneous escape/centring, is perhaps comparable to the experience of submission and the phenomenon of ‘subspace’.

Okay, that’s enough theorising :)

Did I mention that I love to play as a maid? This fantasy vies with schoolgirl as my favourite as it is so damn hot. Different, of course: more licentious, more adult. I love the power dynamic, and the helplessness it affords me; I love that my partner knows he is free to do with me just as he pleases, however depraved or humiliating or painful his attentions might prove. I have been bent over a table and bound (minus my knickers of course), been verbally lashed and physically thrashed, then had his big, hard cock forced into my wicked little mouth... I can’t adequately describe the feeling I get as I pleasure him like that, an abject, shameful whore, tears running down my face, my bottom and legs agonisingly red from my thrashing. Let’s go with AMAZING. And then, when he strides round behind me, and tells me I deserve to be fucked like the wanton little bitch I am, and he forces his throbbing, steel-hard cock into me, every last yelp-inducing inch of it, and he pounds and pounds just as hard as he can, each thrust jolting me, making me gasp, his hips slamming against my tender skin...

And all the while he whispers (and growls) cruel, demeaning words, disdainfully reminding me of my lowly status, of his ownership of me... and warns that I will be sorely regretful if I have the audacity to come...

Yep, that’s my idea of a thoroughly good time.

That’s what this naughty girl thinks about roleplay, anyway. What does it mean to you? Please share your thoughts – I'd love to hear them!

And check out what the other kinky peeps round the table have to say:

25 comments:

  1. Excellent post-- I totally agree. When I'm in a scene, I'm in an altered state-- submission is like a powerful drug.

    When I cleaned out my mom's house last year I found my old pom pon skirt and letter jacket. My husband's not really into costumes (other than Olivia Newton John workout clothes - ha!!) but he looked pretty excited about the cheerleading outfit... I hadn't considered it with an abduction scenario, but I'm liking the idea!!!

    Thank you for participating-- your eloquence and thoughts are so resonant!

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    1. That sounds like the perfect scenerio, Renee! Everyone's been finding such fun things cleaning out others homes. You are only limited by your imagination!

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    2. Thank you, Renee - you're very kind. Glad I could help inspire a new thing to try :D

      And I quite agree, Corinne! Our imaginations are the most important, and the most potently erotic, element in any play.

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  2. Thank you Penelope. I bet you are a very pretty "school girl."

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. Oh Joey, you're such a charmer :)

      And a very cute schoolboy, of course.

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  3. ooh, your last few paragraphs have me panting...I really gotta look into this aspect a little bit more. Now for the online shops....

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    1. Me too, Tara! Penelope you have a way with words! Going all out with role play is becoming an irresistible thought for me after this post!

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    2. Wow! Thanks so much for the amazing responses, both of you! I'm really glad I helped stir something :)

      I know I can only speak from the POV of a roleplayer (makes me sound like a geek) as I don't have D/s or DD experience, but...

      ...if it's possible to feel more ecstatically wanton, more wonderfully free, more I'm-going-to-explode-I-swear with kinky, sexual and emotional bliss than the way I feel sometimes when I roleplay, then that has to be one hell of a thing you're doing.

      P.S. I very much recommend being bound, gagged and thrashed senseless while roleplaying as a maid / slavegirl / whore. Then being fucked even more senseless.

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  4. You really come alive here, Penelope.

    I like what you say about becoming more aware of yourself. Even as it sounds opposite to the idea of role play, of escaping for a while, I get that. You've said it so well, so beautifully and didn't forget just the fun part of it.

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    1. Thanks, Natasha! :D I actually revised the post at the last minute in hopes of making it less analytical-sounding and more personal. Glad it struck a chord :)

      I could write forever about the think of kink. It fascinates me. But then so does the practice.

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  5. Hi Penny..Hope I'm not intruding here . I love the prison roleplays as you know - telling the "inmate" what a bad person she is, how she's here to be disciplined and punished and how we must take corective action immediately ..-out of a smart dress or business suit into her humuliating uniform and parepare herself for a spanking..Dios that sound like fun too? I

    Hey being abducted by a cheerleader sounds good too..)

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    1. Mmm I have had many prison fantasies. I remember even as a child wanting to play cops and robbers just to I could feel the boy I was playing with roughly capture me & cuff me.

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    2. Corinne, you are my type of woman! Robbery's a very serious offence so place both your hands out ,I have my trusty extra strength cuffs here and get ready for a long prison stretch..)

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    3. We'll decide on a nice (sorry humiliating and punitive) prison uniform too..)

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  6. Oh my god! Holy Hotness! I love your description of role play. And I love the outfits you love too, I think it's the skirt thing, cheerleader, school girl, maid- such cute skirts to be flipped up to be spanked!

    Thanks for sharing, you always paint the best pictures with your descriptions :)

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    1. Hugs, Casey! You're so kind.

      Yep, cute skirts are fantastic - perfect for teasing and feeling all kinds of naughty in, and as you quite rightly say, perfect for flipping up! Oh! :D

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  7. Penny, I love reading your thoughts!
    They are beautiful, insightful, and sexy as hell!
    :)
    I also love the cute skirts!
    I just wish I could find some in my size :(
    hugs!!!

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    1. Hugs right back at you, with added thanks (and spanks) :D

      I'm always up for a bit of online window shopping if you'd like a personal shopper to assist with your cute skirt quest xx

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  8. such hot stories can be played out when you roleplay as a lustful schoolgirl that has the hots for her teacher or a maid that wants the master of the house and the one i like is a cheerleader who is taken back to the locker room for a spanking by the gym teacher for wearing slutty knickers.

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    1. Mm... that is a nice idea! I shall have to put it on the 100% Fun Stuff to-do list. (I'm sure it'll work well with my netball kit for now). Thanks!

      And I do like (and often play) the roleplay dynamic you describe: the naughty girl actively wanting the dominant figure (within the reality of the roleplay), and getting just what she deserves and more. It's a hot one.

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  9. Love the RP ideas , especially the last one, Anon!

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    1. Mr X, you're an incorrigible, kinky pervert!

      Just my kind of guy :D

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    2. Awww..Wel I do try hard,Penny..)

      Big Hugs!

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  10. I have a thing for maid fantasies as well! Even without the whole outfit aprons are easy to come by & can be such a turn on! I think I will invest in the whole outfit though. I have found some really great ones on pinterest. I really enjoyed your passion for this subject! It really made it come alive for me as I read.

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    1. I'm so blown away that you liked my post and made such great comments, Corinne! Thank you! <3

      Glad to know a fellow maid fantasist :)

      And yes, you definitely have something there: part of an outfit can have an erotic power of its own, like a kinky metonym standing for the whole. It can create the same kinds of associations and the same resultant thrill as the whole outfit... personally, I always feel kinda yummy when I wear kneesocks :)

      And just the sight of a school tie... ohh!

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